Comments on: It Is OVER Between Us http://blog.seandeacon.com/2007/02/it-is-over-between-us/ From the Handsome and Charming Mr. Deacon Mon, 30 Jan 2012 00:11:38 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: sean http://blog.seandeacon.com/2007/02/it-is-over-between-us/comment-page-1/#comment-54 sean Wed, 14 Feb 2007 16:38:46 +0000 http://blog.seandeacon.com/2007/02/13/it-is-over-between-us/#comment-54 Two options. Keep bantering, or leave after a while, flirt with some other girls and come back. Sometimes this stuff just isn't going to land. You need to use your intuition to tell you when she just isn't into it and when she's putting up a front. My friend and fellow PickUp 101 instructor Niels is really good at this, and can talk about this better than I can. I know he has written about this on his blog. There's a link on the sidebar, or just go to http://nielshoven.com Two options. Keep bantering, or leave after a while, flirt with some other girls and come back.

Sometimes this stuff just isn’t going to land. You need to use your intuition to tell you when she just isn’t into it and when she’s putting up a front.

My friend and fellow PickUp 101 instructor Niels is really good at this, and can talk about this better than I can. I know he has written about this on his blog. There’s a link on the sidebar, or just go to http://nielshoven.com

]]> By: Zach http://blog.seandeacon.com/2007/02/it-is-over-between-us/comment-page-1/#comment-55 Zach Wed, 14 Feb 2007 16:22:21 +0000 http://blog.seandeacon.com/2007/02/13/it-is-over-between-us/#comment-55 I'd like to see a post where you discuss dealing with girls who don't play back. Obviously there's the "she's not the type of girl for me" option, but what about the "she's playing hard to get" plan? Example: You: "OK, that's it, the wedding's off." Her: [Blank Stare] You: "It's not you, it's me. I'm not just a piece of meat, ya know? With you, it's always sex sex sex... I need trust and comfort." Her: [Rolling eyes] You: "You don't have to say a word. I know what you're thinking... *sigh*... You can have the Carrot Top DVD." etc... Assume you're body language is A-OK. Assume this would be working with most other girls in the bar. How would you melt the ice princess? I’d like to see a post where you discuss dealing with girls who don’t play back. Obviously there’s the “she’s not the type of girl for me” option, but what about the “she’s playing hard to get” plan?

Example:
You: “OK, that’s it, the wedding’s off.”
Her: [Blank Stare]
You: “It’s not you, it’s me. I’m not just a piece of meat, ya know? With you, it’s always sex sex sex… I need trust and comfort.”
Her: [Rolling eyes]
You: “You don’t have to say a word. I know what you’re thinking… *sigh*… You can have the Carrot Top DVD.”
etc…

Assume you’re body language is A-OK. Assume this would be working with most other girls in the bar. How would you melt the ice princess?

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