Comments on: Nice guys are manipulative bastards

By: (sic)ko

(sic)ko — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 08:29:30 +0000

huge difference between being nice, and being respectful.
this statement reaches far beyond the world of dating.

By: brian p. adamczyk

brian p. adamczyk — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 01:41:04 +0000

Hello just thought i will let you know that i also had a issue with your blog appearing frozen also. Must be gremlins in the page.

By: Fuzu

Fuzu — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 04:21:06 +0000

Ooh oops i just wrote a big comment and when i submitted it it come up blank! Please tell me it worked right? I do not want to write it again if i dont have to! Either the blog bugged out or i am an idiot, the latter doesnt surprise me lol.

By: Sean Deacon

Sean Deacon — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 23:25:35 +0000

Well, my view is that if a man doesn’t know pretty early on that the woman likes him, then he is doing something wrong. I certainly think that we should be kind, but niceness for the sake of getting in exchange for being nice is a dangerous path.
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By: Ben

Ben — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 23:11:13 +0000

If a guy likes a girl, of course he is going to be on his best behavior. So whether, he gets mutual feelings or not is beside the point. He is hoping that she feels the same way, but if she doesn’t, then he will feel free to move on. A girl should let a guy know as soon as possible whether she is interested, or just likes one as a friend, or wants him to go away. It is never wrong to be nice. We need more kindness in the world.

By: Sean Deacon

Sean Deacon — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 19:04:08 +0000

Good point. When the niceness is a facade that a man puts on around women he wants, he’s being a dick.

By: T. AKA Ricky Raw

T. AKA Ricky Raw — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 18:59:58 +0000

I’d add that the nice guy who is mean to guys who can’t help him or demeans girls who are fat or ugly but is only nice to women he finds hot is another guy who is not really nice. There are so many guys who are dicks to everyone except the hot girl they want then go around lamenting how nice guys finish last when she doesn’t want him.